Monday, March 7, 2016

A party for Jack

I spy with my little eye.. a one year old!! 
 We made cupcakes. Jack was a fan of licking the beaters. 



 We kept the day pretty low key and just had the Wright's over for supper and cake. Jack loves noodles so we had chicken fettucine. He still managed to have room for 2 cupcakes. 

Jack got spoiled. He blocks, tonka trucks, stacker toys and a busy ball popper. 


On Saturday we went to the pool. It was so fun to get out and do something as a family. Jack loves the water. The best part is that by the end he is always exhausted. 
After swimming we went to visit the Wright's. There were even more toys waiting for him there. 
He is very loved and spoiled a the Wright house. Chrissy bought him a bag of Cheetoh's. Jack was in heaven. 

It was fun to celebrate this milestone. It is hard to believe a year has come and gone. I didn't feel emotional on his birthday but waking up and going back to work the following Monday was pretty hard. 
Happy Jack-o! You are so fun and spunky! I look forward to this next year and hope I can keep up with you!



12 Months

We made it a full year. There were times that I doubted we were ever going to reach this milestone but looking back it seemed to take hardly any time. It is crazy how that works. At one Jack is taking lots of steps but can get places faster by crawling. He will put his head down and crawl faster. It looks like he is powering up but this can lead to crawling into things. He is very friendly but does prefer me or Tim. Most of the time Jack dislikes fruit. He does enjoy vegetables, meat and cheese. He is pretty efficient at feeding himself with his fingers and is typically a big mess at the end of every meal. Jack is very healthy and weighs in at 22 lbs and his head is in the 95th percentile. Shirts are always a struggle to putt on because his head is so big. 




 This little monster got weaned at 11 1/2 months! After biting me multiple times I was done. Jack was pretty upset about it for a few days but was eventually able to get over it and now drinks milk from a sippy cup. Since cutting him off completely he has started sleeping better at night. I think he was confused by when he was supposed to be eating so he was just waking up and eating because I wasn't putting my foot down. He now goes to bed between 7:30-8:00 and wakes up between 6:00-7:00. I always wish it was close to 7 but I am not complaining because I am getting uninterrupted sleep and Tim is an early riser so he usually wakes up with Jack.
He loves to play with balls and is starting to really play with us. He loves peek-a-boo and will chase you around the island. He thinks "This little Piggy" is hilarious and anticipates the end by pulling away his toes. I love making him laugh until he can't breathe. 
 One of Jack's favourite places to play is on the couch. He is finally figuring out gravity and is able to get off all by himself. 
Eating a strawberry off the floor just like a dog. He really has mad love for dogs. 
We have to keep the bathroom door on the main floor closed because Jack is so fast and it is his favourite past time to put Wrigley's food in the water. 
I went to the optometrist and Jack just sat on the couch eating a cheese string. I was overwhelmed by how big my baby is. 
 Jack is obsessed with Tim's earplugs. We try to have him "snuggle" us in our bed but he is so busy that it only lasts for a brief second. 

Jack is a pretty good laundry helper. We don't spend a lot of time in the basement so he is happy to explore and take the clothes out of the basket. I put the clean clothes on the couch so can't get into them. 
 Jack has 2 bottom teeth and one top tooth. The other top one is poking through and I will really miss his snaggle tooth. I love that snaggle tooth smile. 

 After naps we usually read books. Wrigley likes to get in on the action and Jack doesn't mind. 
This is what I learned in the first year of Jack's life:
-Breastfeeding is one of the hardest things I have ever done. In the beginning it was hard to get the hang of it and then I couldn't figure out how to wean him. I did enjoy the time with him because in the end it was the only time he sat still with me. 
-Sleep training is no joke! Jack has a crazy amount of stamina and determination. This personality worries me because in the future I just want him to do what I say! But honestly sleep training was the one thing I really wanted to do and Jack full on resisted. I am grateful for a fabulous rocking chair and an iphone that got me through many a long nights. 
-The health nurse is always crazy.
-Feeding a baby is hard work. Jack never wanted purees and hates fruit. If he doesn't like it he will just open his mouth and let it fall out. It was hard not to break down and just feed him candy because I really wanted him to eat anything! I am happy because we now have food fairly figured out and Jack has become a pretty good eater. 
-The milestones are exciting and hard to wait for. It seems like everybody's kid on facebook is so much more advanced than mine. 

All of these points came with a few (or a lot) of tears but what I learned is that it is ok. Jack is a little human with a strong will and lots of spunk. I feel pretty lucky to be his mimm. It was a fabulous year and I feel so blessed to have maternity leave so that I could spend it all with Jack. It was so awesome to be able to go anywhere and do anything at any time that I wanted. Jack is my little buddy and it was so fun to have him. So much growth has occurred over this year. Seeing Tim as a dad is one of my favourite things. Jack just adores him. It is hard to remember a time with out Jack. I do miss the sleep ins and absolute freedom but life has changed into a long term fun. I continue to look forward to every milestone and the changes that happen in all of us. Life really great.

Monday, February 1, 2016

New Years

On New Years Eve I picked Tim up in Olds and continued onto Edmonton. We met up with the White's for supper. We tried to go to Carls Jr and Pressed but they were both closed so we went to Wendy's instead. We are really classy individuals.
 We then went went to the Dudley's to continue the party. We at more food and went for a hot tub. After ringing in the New Year we played "Things in a Box" and it got highly inappropriate. Tim was an instigator on much of it but it was all fun. 
On New Years day we played wii, did more hot tubbing and just hung out. Jack loves his cousins and Rocko.

 This little monster is my favourite. He is so sweet and happy. I even got a laugh out of him. 
 Jack loves anything salty. He climbed up on the couch all by himself and helped himself to the bag. 

We also ordered Chinese food and I binge ate it along with some doughnuts. So delicious but so gross all at the same time. It was so fun to see my family and I am so glad we went for a quick trip. 

I always contemplate resolutions but never get around to writing them down. I have thought about what changes I want to make and how I want this year to go. I have decided that I want to take a breath. I am known for flying off the handle and being extremely emotional. I want to try to take a breath and not be overly reactive. I want to take a breath and not sweat the small stuff. I want to take a breath and enjoy my family. I want to take a breath and notice the blessing and tender mercies that surround my life. I am excited for this year and can't wait to see how it tops last year. 

Christmas

On Christmas Eve we woke up to a sick baby. He had a snotty nose, low grade fever and just wanted to be cuddled. I was hoping to get everything cleaned up and perfectly ready for when Tim's family came but it just wasn't possible. It was frustrating but once I took a step back I was able to remember that it isn't about having a perfect party but spending time with family and thanking Christ for everything he has given us. 
When the Wright's came we ate pizza, played games and read the Christmas story.

Too much food and too much fun for us. Tim fell asleep at about 8:30. 
Tim, Elise, Jack, Dede Stockings

My poor little sick baby! 
Jack opening the first present. 






Tim has been wanting a TV for a long time and is always checking the flyers. I firmly put my foot down and said no. I had no idea what to get him and found a really great deal on a TV on Black Friday so I caved and broke the budget. I had my friend store it at her house and then snuck it into the basement a couple days before Christmas. I am normally a stickler for budget and never go even a penny over so Tim was super surprised to open this box. I wrapped up a note that said his present was too big to put under the tree and I had it downstairs. He was so excited and new instantly! It was fun to finally pull off a surprise and spoil Tim. 
Christmas breakfast. 
Jack got crazy spoiled. It was fun to open the trains and play. Jack thought they were pretty cool. 
Christmas dinner. Ham, funeral potatoes, sweet potatoes and veggies and homemade pie for desert. It was delicious and I was proud because I made the entire thing!
For Jack, dinner also came with a side of boogers... 
Even Wrigley got spoiled on Christmas with a pupcake. 

Good thing they have all natural ingredients because Jack tried to get in on the action. 
For Christmas we gave Jack a ball pounder toy, books and a bath toy. Baths have become exponentially more fun. 


Pooped out after a fabulous day. 
I am so grateful for Christ and because of him my life is so blessed. This has been a challenging but amazing year. The birth of Jack and all the ups and downs that came with that, frustrations over Tim and his work and then being blessed with opportunity and being able to buy a house. Through everything I am so grateful to know that Christ is real and through the atonement he personally knows my struggles and joys. It feels so good to be at peace and have so much joy in the phase of life that we are in. 
It was so fun to have the Wright's over to celebrate the holidays. It was so fun to have a home to gather in and have fun. It was fun to start traditions and I look forward to doing it again next year!
Merry Christmas from our family to yours!